Sex tips; female ejacutation!

To Squirt or Not To Squirt; there is the rub!

So of you may have heard about the occurrence of female ejaculation, and may be wondering whether it's a myth, a fact of life, or some combination of the two. I was two, so I decided to do a little research of my own, and report back to y'all about my findings.Yes, female ejaculation exists. No, it's not urine. And if you're like me, and sometimes judge things off of what appears in porn; never fear. Not every film that has female ejaculation is the real deal. In fact, most women that experience ejaculation report about a teaspoon of liquid coming out. Some women have more, some have less, but most don't have 2 cups spurting out from their nether regions.What is it and where does it come from? I know I was always nervous about my partner thinking that I was peeing during sex, so I wanted to know exactly what this strange substance was. Well, you have probably heard about the g-spot, the spongy vaginal area that when aroused provides fabulous sensation (IMHO!) that can be reached by inserting two fingers into the vulva and making a "come-here" motion. Some people refer to it as the female prostate, but studies have shown that this is probably incorrect. In fact, females DO have a separate prostate, near the opening of the bladder. It's on the other side of the vaginal wall from the G-spot (coincidence? I think not! Our bodies are built for pleasure). When the prostate is stimulated along with the G-spot (usually the clitoris plays a pretty big role in this as well, helping the woman get aroused enough to have a G-spot to stimulate), there is occasionally a release of fluid from both the prostate and bladder (that IS NOT urine). No studies have yet found exactly what the purpose of this fluid is, and the exact content of the ejaculate varies from woman to woman, and even from day to day, depending at what point of the cycle the woman is in.Now, you may ask me, how can I ejaculate? Firstly, while all women have prostates, some may be more prone to ejaculation than others. Secondly, although it is incredibly fun to try to "accomplish" a sexual goal, sometimes the process is just as fun as whether or not you succeed. However, it is incredibly fun to give it a try (trust me, I know!). With that in mind, here are some tips:
*If you decide to explore female ejaculation with a partner, make sure it is someone with whom you are comfortable, and that you trust. Sex is complicated enough; doing it while not relaxed is just plain challenging. I know that it takes me some time to let both my body and mind calm down; so figure out what does it for you, and then do it!
*Begin the process of sexual play; kissing, rubbing, pinching, whatever it is that turns you on. If you're not turned on, it's not gonna happen. Talk to your partners, let them know what you want. Sometimes I feel bossy, but if it helps them know what works for me, then mission accomplished.
*To stimulate the G-spot, either have your partner insert their fingers (usually index and middle) into your vagina, pointing upwards (towards your belly button) and make the "come hither motion" or head on over to your friendly, neighborhood Babeland.com and check out some of the G-spot stimulation vibes and dildos. It make take a little trial and error to figure out what is best for your body, but when you find the right one, you'll just know!
*Don't forget that clitoral stimulation is pretty important. The G-spot goes into hiding until a woman is aroused, and that's the best time to stimulate it. As most women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, now would be an ideal time to go search for the little man in the canoe.
*If you don't succeed the first time, don't be disappointed. You can't honestly tell me you didn't have SOME fun trying it out – I know I did (and let me tell you, I've tried it several times…don't give up. It'll come and so will you). It may or may not happen, and you can always try again…enjoy the attempt as well as the end product!