I've always had fantasies about getting it on in a pool or hot tub, or maybe even the ocean, but on the other hand, that also seems a bit dangerous, even risky. What do you think about sex in the water?
-Ready to get wet in Washington, DC
Oooh, sex in the water, something that I'll bet frequents many fantasies, not just your own. There's just something about being wet and relatively weightless that makes my mind think dirty thoughts.
A question I get asked a lot, especially by the younger generation, is whether or not you can get pregnant from sperm hanging out in the water (what a visual!). For example, let's say you're in a pool or hot tub where someone ejaculated earlier. No, you cannot get pregnant. Sperm are relatively fragile - they can only live 2-5 days inside you. Once out of the body and hanging out, they're pretty much done for. Add chlorine and other gnarly chemicals to the mix, and they're as good as gone. So that is one less worry at least.
HOWEVER, when bumping bodies, whether in or out of water, there is always the possibility of exchanging STIs Condoms don't really work in the water because the heat of hot tubs degrade them, and they're highly likely to fall, or more realistically, float off), so before you hop into the water together, make sure both of you are tested and cleared for STIs. And if your partner is male and his penis is in you, there is still a chance of getting pregnant. Don't let sex in the water mean having your water break 9 months down the road, unless, of course, that is what you're aiming for.
As far as logistics, let me introduce you to a good friend of mine - silicone lube. Regardless of who your partner is or what you're doing, if it involves your vagina, you're going to want some lube. Seriously. And water, as wonderful as it is, makes all that lovely natural lube go away. And water, while wet, is not lubricant. Water based lubes will wash away in the water, and oil based lubes are not good for lady bits, so silicone is probably going to be your best bet. Use it with fingers, sex toys, cocks - you name it. My personal favorite brand is Eros, which you can get at any good sex toy store, in real life or online.
Once you've got lube, it's time to get some action happening. If you're lucky enough to have a pool, hot tube, lake, or other body of water to yourself, it's much easier. Just hop in naked, and after some delicious foreplay, which may consist of water fights, horsing around, or sensual back massages, get going. It begins to get more complicated if more people are around. I personally wouldn't advise doing it in a crowded pool, as clear water shows all. A crowded beach might be a little easier, as the deeper and darker water can hide a variety of sins. If you're going to be wearing swimsuits, which I'd advise doing unless you're all alone, think about easy access. Most suits allow breasts to come out the top to allow for easy access, and one-piece suits can be pulled aside for access, while two-piece bottoms can be taken off - just hold on to the bottoms so you don't lose them.
Other things to think about: What is in the water? If the water is really dirty, you may not want to get down and dirtier in it…it might be worth waiting to find a clean water source. Also, be careful with any type of penetration - forcing water into your vagina and against your cervix can cause cervical and uterine cramping if you're not a bit gentler. A big plus about water is you can try some new and interesting positions since both of you will be way lighter than usual!
Want to add some oral sex into the mix? This works best in a pool or hot tub - have one of you sit on the edge, and the other person stays in the water and walks up to the feast laid before them, while the receiver dangles their feet in the water. Use the wall as a support for sex from behind, or for balance when trying a variety of positions. And who said inflatable toys were just for kids? Use them to the best of your advantage.
As long as you're careful about it, and think it through, sex in the water can be a fun filled experience. Enjoy!
Jupming into the deep end,
Essin' Em
Get some ideas on getting down while getting wet while watchingA Pool Party At Seymore's Part 2:
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