Movie Review! Real Sex Magazine - All Masturbations

Real Sex Magazine - All Masturbations

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At first, I wasn't quite sure what to expect with a movie titled "Real Sex Magazine: All Masturbation". I wasn't in the mood to see perky blondes with huge fake breasts screaming what sounded like bloody murder as they over did orgasm after orgasm. I was pleasantly surprised with this film; the director gave each woman an opening interview, asking them about where they were from, their background in the industry, and what turned them on, what they fantasized about etc. After giving a once over on their bodies, the stars just got to lie back, and get themselves off in whatever way worked for the, whether it was just a hand, a dildo, a vibrator, or even humping pillows. These clips are real women, really masturbating, and really giving themselves real orgasms. They come from all over the country (world in fact) and different backgrounds, but their scenes just show them enjoying getting themselves off. What a wonderful, real, enjoyable and refreshing look at the women in the pornography industry!
-Essin' Em

Movie Review! Alice in Wonderland

Alice In Wonderland
(The 70's adult version, we ain't talking Disney)

When I stumbled across this movie, I wasn't quite sure what to expect. I didn..t want to watch some old 1970's throwback, and it looked a little too..weird? I mean, come on, a 1970's porno MUSICAL??? But I had heard good things about it, so I decided to give it a chance. I'm not going to lie, I thought the first about 10 minutes were pretty boring, and when I saw the humans dressed as some kind of animals pawing at (petting?) Alice..s body, I was about done. But I persevered; I am a true porn connoisseur; I do not stop when slightly skeeved out. And Im glad I kept watching! From the humpy-dumpty Ding-A-Ling sing along to the Mad Hatter (whose hat number referred to the size of his..dormouse?) to the Queen of Hearts who wants Alice..s head..meaning she wants Alice to give her head, this film is hilarious, and quite enjoyable. Remember that the 1970's were pre-silicone, pre-bleach blondes, and pre-form written porn. There aren..t many cum shots, and the blowjob and intercourse scenes don't last forever, nor are the male stars all super well hung, but the stars seem to genuinely enjoy themselves, and as they sing over and over again, you have to listen to yourself to know what makes you happy! I'm not saying this is my number one pick for getting down and dirty, but it definitely deserves to be checked out!
-Essin' Em

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Movie Review; Strap Attack, the Rules Have Changed

Movie Review: Strap Attack - the Rules have Changed
My first strap-on movie ever, and it looks like I chose a good one. While I wasn't initially impressed with the first scene, I pushed on, and "Strap Attack 2 - The Rules Have Changed" was a definite hit. I really enjoyed the second scene with the two women penetrating the guy, as well as the scene with Holly Wellin - it was awesome how much the guys really got into it and were really enjoying. For my first strap-on experience (and by that I mean virtually or in real life), I thought this was a great, enjoyable, realistic introduction to the world of strap-ons and women penetrating men. There weren't a lot of bells and whistles, but there were a bunch of stars having a blast (in more ways than one), and that's all I wanted to see… good clean fun (in a manner of speaking).
-Essin' Em



Strap Attack; The Rules Have Changed

HotmoviesForHer.com To Offer New Exclusive Column By Girlfriends Films' Sydni Ellis

Check it out now! Between Takes by Sydni Ellis on HotmoviesForHer.com

Philadelphia, PA - HotMovies.com is thrilled to announce their women's site HotmoviesForHer.com will be featuring a new exclusive weekly column "Between Takes", by Sydni Ellis from the top lesbian studio Girlfriends Films. As a writer, director and performer for the studio, Sydni will provide first-hand insight to the adult world and dispel common negative rumors held by some women.

"Society has a double standard when it comes watching porn - men are expected to watch it, but women should feel ashamed for enjoying it. Many women would never admit that they enjoy porn, and most women who don't enjoy porn have probably not had the opportunity to find movies that turn them on,” says HotmoviesForHer.com's chief editor Monica L., aka Venus Vegas on the site.

"I'm honored and very excited that Sydni will be contributing and working more closely with us. Having someone who is working in the industry in such a female-positive way offering her perspective on our site gives our users a more personal connection to what they are watching, which is important to a lot of women."

Sydni Ellis of Girlfriends Films agrees. "Women love porn as much as men do, they just don't like porn that insults their intelligence or grosses them out. We're dedicated to giving our female fans what they want, and we listen to their feedback. Hotmoviesforher.com is proof that women are coming out of the closet when it comes to loving porn. We've been so happy with the way their fans have responded to our films, that it seemed natural for me to do a column here. They are the only VOD site we've authorized to show our films. We just like what they're about, and they've been a pleasure to work with."

HotmoviesForHer.com offers movie reviews by women, sex tips, sex toy reviews, erotica and an Editor's Spotlight blog, in addition to HotMovies.com's full catalog of over 55,000 titles featuring female handpicked titles. These titles include Girlfriends Films, whose movies feature real lesbian sex, not just "girl-on-girl".

For more information, visit www.hotmoviesforher.com and www.girlfriendsfilms.com, or contact Monica at monica@moviedollars.com.

Pony Blinders

I'm just going to take a shot in the dark, but I'd assume that most people have tried, or at least wanted to try some sort of blindfold during sex play. Well, look no further, this blindfold is the cream of the crop. With a fuzzy inside to make it feel even more super sensual and a special design that keeps it from pressing up tight against your eyes (which can definitely get old after a while), it totally blocks out ALL the light, and as we all learned in grade school at some point, when you lose one sense, it makes all of the others way stronger. I'm going to have to admit my 5th grade teacher was right; all my other sensations became SUPER strong...I listened for every noise, and jumped when I was touched. This is a great thing to get if you and your partner are interested in trying new things, but don't want to start with anything too intense. Give it a try, and if you like it, time to move onto all of the other amazing sensation toys that are available in the wonderful world of sex toys.

Double your sexual pleasure - blind yourself with Pony Blinders

Masturbation For All! Part 1

I want to explore my body more, but I'm not sure where to start? Is there a special way to masturbate?

-Suffering Solo!

Masturbation is a subject that is traditionally not talked about as much among groups of women as it is between guys, probably because it used to be (and kind of still is) very taboo for a woman to masturbate at all, let alone admit it to another. Well, I'm reclaiming masturbation. I masturbate!!!! And for those of you women out there who do so as well, awesome! And for those of you who tried it, and it wasn't your thing, good for you! And for those of you that haven't tried it yet, hopefully this will encourage you to go give it a try if you feel so inclined. Ok, enough kudos... on to the juicy bits.

Tons of women masturbate. Kinsey's studies proved it, and Cosmo proves it in a more modern association. Women like to get off, it's true. There are TONS of names for female masturbation. Some of my choice favorites include; ringing Southern bells, clicking the five fingered mouse, crossing the mason-dixon line, visiting the little man in the canoe, tip-toeing through the two-lips, misstressbating and jillin' off, just to give you a little taste. The point it, you're not alone. Your friends (at least someone them) probably do it. Your co-workers probably do it. I hate to break it to you, but your mom has probably at least tried it. It is nothing to be ashamed about, and I think it's ridiculous that people don't talk about it. Masturbation, in my opinion, is amazing, and I want to share it's wonderfulness with everyone. And I'm starting with you.

The lovely thing about being a woman (well, one of many) is that when it comes to masturbation, you have a schmorgasboard of things to try. Studies have demonstrated that they have yet to find two women that masturbate in the EXACT same way, in the same order, etc. So see, we're like snowflakes. Masturbating snowflakes.

You can always give a go at the hand; an oldie but a goodie. There are all sorts of things you can do with your hand; you can use your fingers to stimulate your clit and lips at various speeds and pressures. You can use the palm of your hand to rub against your mons pubis (that cute little bump that is naturally covered with hair). You can lie on your whole hand and rub your body against it; there are so many things to try, and that's just on the outside.

While research says less than 2% of women masturbate ONLY using penetration, lots and lots of women like a little penetration with their outer stimulation, and we all know that we were born with fingers for a reason. You can play with the opening of your vagina, or stick one, two, or how every many fingers you want into it. Once inside, more choices! Move them around, bend them, keep them still. It's like choose your own adventure, except the ending is way more exciting. And remember, you have two hands, and a very advanced brain; you CAN multi-task. Some people also like to use one hand to play with their nipples, hair, lips, neck, ears, and more while doing it.

However, that's not all folks! There are tons of other ways to misstressbate (oh, check me using my favorite terms!). Have access to a bathtub with a faucet? Well, you're well on your way to joining the ranks of the O-army. Some women like to lay on their back with their feet up against the wall with the water from the bottom faucet running on their clit and other lady bits. I myself have a personal fondness for the massaging shower head (although I realize now that mine didn't move, and I had to do the back thing as well…but they sell ones that you can take off the wall and move around. How technology has changed things), and my friend's mother finally told me that she had discovered hers, and it's helping her get through her divorce.

Not into water? How about the women that rub up against things? You can place a pillow on a bed, couch, etc, and lie on top of it, rubbing against it. Or put on a pair of really tight jeans and straddle the arm of a couch (don't even get me start on tight jeans and washing machines…). Arm of a chair, corner of a rounded table, you name it; if you can rub up against it, I bet you some woman has done it.

As you can see, there are tons and tons of ways to get yourself off, all requiring next to nothing. It is very important to remember that this is you time; do what feels good to you, explore your body, try out new things. You might not always (or even ever) get to orgasm. If you do, great, but if not, remember that this is a journey, and shouldn't be goal based.

Oh, what's that? You wanted to know about toys? Well, I am a huge fan of all types of toys as well. But sadly, I only have so much space, and I want to keep you reading, so keep your eyes open for masturbation part two; toys, toys, toys!

Enjoy yourself!

Essin' Em

Get some visual tips from the expert in Nina Hartley's Guide To Masturbation:

Review of "Joanna's Angels 2 - Alt. Throttle"

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Studio: VCA Category: 2007 AVN Award Nominee

As I perused the videos nominated for the 2007 AVN awards, I came across "Joanna's Angels 2 - Alt Throttle". This spoof of Charlie's Angels had everything I enjoy in a porn movie; hot girls with piercing, tattoos and fun hair colors, an attempt at an amusing plot, a good sound track (with music from none other than Rancid), and of course, lots and lots of sex. At first, I was thrown a little by the ditziness portrayed by the Angels, but as I thought back to the original, I remember how well they were parodying the antics of the first Angels. The scenes in the oval office (both those with and without the interns) were amusing, as was the curing of the president's baby after she had been brain washed. Also enjoyable was the motor cycle chase, complete with stunts by Tommy Pistol. Best of all, none of the stars took themselves too seriously, which made it a really awesome and fun to watch movie. While certainly not a Hollywood blockbuster, this film was a treat to watch, and warmed the cockles of this little Alt. Girl's heart.

-Essin' Em

Sex Tips: Ill Communication

I timed this one special to make sure you and your partner can improve your sexual communication just in time to heat up this cold, cold weekend!

Ok, so last week I read your tips on how to give hints to your partner about better sex, but if we have trouble communicating?

-Too Shy

Oh communication, you fickle thing. Who knew that one had to communicate with their partner in order to have great sex? I know I'm already distracted enough by how I look, how I feel, what music is playing, who brought the latex and lube, and whether my parking meter is expired to have to suddenly start thinking about how to properly communicate with my partner. Sex is exhausting and thought consuming; who has time to really even talk about it? And even worse (and maybe this is just my own insecurities), I hate the idea that I might sound bossy when 'communicating' and don't want to turn my partner off.

Too bad for me and the rest of us. Communications is a necessity for good sex, and it's high time we talked about talking. I mean, we all have some form of communicating with other, right? So how come the second the clothes start coming off, we forget how to express our beliefs, opinions and needs? What is it about relationships (and/or naked bodies) that makes us clam up?

Communication is important in all arenas of a relationship, from who does chores (and how you feel about it; I know I hate taking the garbage out, but I bite my tongue and do it anyways) to how often you're sexually active. Sadly, assumptions tend to be made a lot. If your partner is super busy, you might assume that they don't have time for sex. Or they might assume the if you're in bed, you must want to have sex, even if all you want to do is finish that last chapter of your book.

Even worse, sometimes we think we're communicating, but we're really not. Let's say I told my partner "no, not tonight, I'm not in the mood". Maybe I'm really upset about something that happened at work, and want to talk about it, or I'm angry about something my partner did (like making me take out the trash?), but all my partner hears is that I don't want to have sex. I'm not being honest with myself or them. It's possible my partner might even think I find them unattractive, when really I'm just upset that I didn't get a promotion. It's miscommunication like this that can really cause problems, but it happens a lot, mostly because it's hard to expose your feelings, especially if you see it as weak.

It can be even harder to talk and communicate about sex, particularly what you want, because it is sometimes viewed as selfish or bossy. Therefore, we sometimes sit back and just take whatever our partner gives us, whether or not it feels good. And that's no fun (unless you like faking orgasms, and even then, that's what Rocky Horror Picture Show is for). But it's so hard sometimes (at least for me) to say "can you try that a little softer" or "to the left..no, my left".

If you feel uncomfortable talking about what you don't like (such as above), try focusing on what feels good - "I really like it when you go faster/use ice cubes/slide 3 fingers in and out really slowly". You don't even have to say it in the moment; when you start making out, or whatever it is that you do to indicate sex, you can definitely whisper into your partner's ear. Too raunchy? Try telling them the general acts you like; "I like it when you go down on me/I love it when you scratch your fingers across my back".

Still too shy to talk? Luckily, we have the ability to use awesome body language to let people know how we're feeling. Crossed arms mean we're upset or uncomfortable, eye contact can mean we trust or respect the person we're talking to. To bring body language as communication into the bedroom, you don't have to be a stereo-typical female porn star; yelling, moaning, screaming, and thumping the walls. However, you do have to give your partner feedback. If something doesn't feel good, you can move their hand (or move your body, so that their hand is in a different place). If you like being kissed on the neck, try kissing them on the neck; maybe they'll take a hit. When something feels good, give them signals (that are natural to you; again, screaming is not required) to let them know they're doing the right thing; pant loudly, moan deeply, arch your back, close your eyes and throw your head back, move your body closer to what they're doing.

Communication is hard always, and sex is even harder, but there are so many ways to communicate, and so many issues that are resolved by letting your partner know what you like and don't like (and this goes both ways too; feel free to ask your partner if what you're doing feels good, and what they like, and so on), whether verbally, by moaning, or by using body language to show them how you're feeling. Communication takes time and trust, but I know that with enough practice, you and your partner will be on the same (or similar) wavelength and having great, satisfying sex.

Wishing you a flow of stimulating conversation,

Essin' Em

Once your communication is going and your juices are flowing, keep it safe! You may love condoms, you may hate them. But most of you probably do/have/will use them. If you want the best condoms that money can buy, this is where it's at. Crown's Skin Less Skin are fabulous; you (and my male partners have agreed with this statement) feel like you're riding bareback. Also, they seem to have way less of that skeevy latex smell that I associate with some brands of penis raincoats. They have a very high safety rating to boot. So let's see, they smell better, work better and feel better than any other condom I have EVER used, and they're around the same price as any other condom..what's not to love? Feel great and practice safer sex at the same time!

Keep your sex safe and get some Crown Condoms

FIELD TRIP!!!!

As many of you may know (since I *did* post a blog about it last week), today, December 6th, 2006, is free EC (emergency contraception) at all Planned Parenthoodss (except Nebraska, they will be hosting their free EC day in the spring). Well, as intelligent, fun loving, and safer-sex having (as well as super prepared) women, we (Essin' Em and Venus Vegas) decided during our lunch break to take a field trip to our local Planned Parenthood, through the chilly weather, to get our little hands on some free EC (which is now available OTC in most drug stores, but can be more than $40 a shot!), in case of emergencies (either our own, or those of our fabulous female friends). We even took our boss with us, so he could get the full experience.

Firstly, can I say how much it warms the cockles of my heart to see people's partners waiting with them in Planned Parenthood? Everyone should be involved in the contraception/birth control process, and show support for their partners.

Anyways, after a little bit of paper work to make sure we were at least 18 (it's on FDA approve for those 18 and over), and a quick chat with the RN to make sure we understood what it was and how to use it, we were the proud possessors of some Emergency Contraception in case of an emergency.

What a field trip :) And it helped that we got to stop and grab coffee (well, I'm more of a carmel apple cider girl myself) on the way back to the office.

Wishing you the best of luck in your exploits, and that you never have to use EC, but that you have it available,

Essin' Em
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Essin' Em goes under the knife

Hey Ladies -

No, I'm not leaving for good, of course not, I just got here! But I am flying back home to the beautiful state of Colorado to celebrate my birthday (this Saturday the 9th) at my old college Colorado College and then go under the knife to have a third knee surgery (no, it's not from roller derby). But never fear, I've written lots and lots o' movie reviews and sex tips for you, and Venus Vegas will keep putting new ones up on the website. If you have any questions or tips you'd like me to write about (or if you want to send me birthday or get well wishes ) you can still send them to em@hotmoviesforher.com, and I'll do my best to get back to you when I'm not on painkillers.

And don't forget to check out the movies, sex tips, toy reviews, and more at our fabulous site, HotMoviesForHer!!!

Best Wishes, and I'll do my best to keep some posts up. Until then, and I'll see you at the end of January 2007 (it's a long recovery, and I'll miss you lots!),

Essin' Em

Movie Review: The New Neighbors

I was really hoping to watch a film with some semblance of a plot, but something that didn't bring back memories of MC Hammer and the rest of the 80's. Evidently, this film knew exactly what I meant, because while it does have some cheese, it is a far cry from velveeta. With an interesting back-story, and all types of sex, each scene of "The New Neighbors" is a little different, and kept my attention throughout the film. The fact that this could be a regular movie, if it lost all the banging, says to me that it's amusing, and has a plot, at some level. Don't think of it as an Oscar winning feature (although they are nominated for 6 AVN awards!); look at it as an AWESOME B-flick with lots and lots (and lots) of sex. The situations are relatable, the variety of sex is fun, and all in all, this is definitely a fun film, especially when you're in the mood for a porno with a plot.
-Essin' Em

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World AIDS day...

Hey all -

In addition to all things fabulous and arousing, sometimes there is a more serious side to sexuality, and as many of you know, AIDS is a huge pandemic everywhere in the world. Today (December 1st) is World AIDS day, and we here at hotmoviesforher.com encourage you to do something for the cause, whether it is checking out the (RED) site at

Join Red

or wearing a red AIDS awareness ribbon, donating some of your hard earned time or money to the cause, stopping by an AIDS hospice to cheer the patients up, or whatever it is that you can do to help the millions of people around the world affected with this deadly illness.

Thank you for reading this, and one day, we will find a cure.

Essin' Em and Venus Vegas, Hot Movies For Her

Sex Toy Review; The Guide to Getting it on!

This book is my number one pick for info on sex and sexuality, and I probably should invest in the printing company since I buy it for weddings, birthdays, holidays, bat mitzvahs, graduations, etc. It is the gift that really keeps on giving; it has information on everything from nipples to romance, oral sex to bondage, periods to massages. I like to think of it as the bible of sex. You can read the whole thing through cover to cover (which I've done with all three editions that I own), or use it just to reference things. Get ideas for new things to try or techniques to master, or bookmark a chapter to show your partner what really turns you on. Bring it on a bus or airplane for some great conversation starting material. All in all, possibly one of the most comprehensive, humorous and fun books ever written about sex.

-Essin' Em

Get your own Guide To Getting It On!!

Sex Tips; Pleasure Cheatsheet

My partner isn't very good at pleasuring me. He/She is more of a wham, bam, thank you ma'am kind of lover, and doesn't have a lot of experience with manual stimulation/cunnilingus, but wants to get better. What kind of advice or hints can I give my partner so I can get more enjoyable sex without sounding too bossy or controlling? – Women all over the universe

Ah. The question I kept asking myself all through my undergraduate years. With out buying a pocket pussy, and licking it myself to show my partners exactly what I wanted, how in the hell was I going to get what I wanted? And since I wasn't ready to buy a silicone crotch, I suffered in silence (or faked it) for many a long night.

But then I realized that most people actually want to be good at pleasing their partner. I know I really do, and have no qualms asking my partner if what I'm doing feels good, if they want more or less, what else they'd like me to do. That's easy for me, but even I, Miss Sexpert Extraordinaire, have issues telling my lovers everything I need to get off. So, if you're in the same or similar boat, here's a cheat sheet to hand to your partner with coffee, leave on the pillow before your next tryst, or to read out loud together in a funny accent to make it less intimidating (ok, maybe the accent thing is just me).

Each woman is, for lack of a better analogy, like a snowflake (clearly, I like the snow. I AM from Colorado), completely different. Some women like lots of clit stimulation, others like 1 finger penetrating, and others like a lot more. It totally varies from person to person, and even the same woman may like different things at different times.

Firstly, realize that this shouldn't be 100% goal based; too much pressure to reach orgasm can cause performance anxiety, and make it even harder, so know that the journey of getting there (all the playing and fingering and licking and sucking) are very enjoyable to both parties. And sometimes, we don't want to have orgasms…I've never been with a guy who seemed to get this. Sometimes the stimulation is nice, and I like to play, but I'm not really in the mood to come. Really. I'm not lying. And sometimes that's all I want, so please get to work.

Also, many women need a little more time to get aroused than most men do; keep this in mind. Not everyone does, but most of us can't go from 0-60 in the time it takes to unbutton my pants. If she enjoys kissing, give her lots of that. Neck, ears, lips, breasts, nipples, belly button, etc. If you think you've kissed and petted her enough, do it a little more. Then keep moving. Additionally, some women (myself included) really really really like their breasts played with (although just FYI, nipples do not equal radio dials). Other women are not so mammary focused, so again, this is the point when you ask.

Talk to her, ask her what feels good, if what you're doing is enough, if she prefers faster or slower. Look for feedback; moans, back arching, eyes closing, pushing herself closer to your hand or mouth. If she is pushing your hand away, or tensing up and moving away from you, that would probably be a bad sign. Try different things, if you've made it to her lower set of lips, give them a lick or a stroke, and keep going to her thighs, and then come back on up. For the most part, teasing is good.

Start with her lips, NOT her clit, and start lightly and slowly and work your way up. If she tells you to go faster/slower/harder/softer, do it. And once you've found the right speed and intensity, don't speed up or push harder; just keep doing it. And once you're getting to that point, DON'T STOP.

While I keep stressing communication, I realize that a) this is hard, and b) sometimes you just need to know what to do. I have a book fetish; I collect sex books. Some are good, some aren't so wonderful, but most of them have sections on cunnilingus and finger a woman. Why don't you try reading it together, and having her tell you what she likes/dislikes as she reads it? Or give the different techniques a try. My favorite book (although any sexuality book would suffuce!) would have to be "The Guide to Getting it On", which is available at Babeland,...Get your own Guide To Getting It On!!

Wishing you some joyful journeying,

Essin' Em

Check out Nina Hartley's Guide to Couples Sexploration

Movie Review: The Idiot's Guide to Making Porno Movies

In this funny film, four different directors make little vignettes embodying the concept of pizza delivery. The "Idiot's Guide to Making Porno Movies" delves into the popular fantasy of having a pizza delivery person come in and having hot sex with you. Having four different directors really makes it more interesting, because there are 4 unique styles, so there is definitely something for everyone. This throw back to the porn of the 70's and 80's is the product of many daydreams, and perhaps even some people's realities. I enjoy that the third scene had a pizza delivery girl, showing that men are not the only ones to walk in and put out when delivering this cheesy delight. All in all, a great movie for some fun laughs, or for exploration of your pizza delivery fantasies. Just a warning; it will make you hungry, and not all pizza delivery people will be as…accommodating…as those in the film.
-Essin' Em

Watch it here:


The Idiot's Guide to Making Porno Movies

FREE EC!!!! (Emergency Contraception)

Ladies -- Please mark your calendars!

Planned Parenthood is handing out FREE, yes no duckets necessary, FREE emergency contraception on Wednesday, December 6th . Just stop in your nearest clinic (link below) and you can receive one free packet. Everyone should have a backup handy for you, a friend, a loved one, whomever.

Emergency Contraception prevents an unplanned pregnancy up to 5 days after having unprotected sex. It is more effective the sooner you take it so having a backup may be crucial in a time-sensitive situation. We know its not a perfect world; whether the condom broke, your contraception failed, you got drunk and/or high and a little forgetful, the reasons are endless, but please take this opportunity to prevent an unintended, unwanted pregnancy. It works just like birth control pills-- by stopping ovulation. Remember, it PREVENTS pregnancy. And with HALF, yes 50%, of all pregnancies in this country being unintended, this is a real concern.

Of course, Planned Parenthood would also be happy to visit with you about getting on a reliable, regular form of birth control. Just ask!

Also, condoms are 4 for $1-- so get down to Planned Parenthood on Dec. 6th. Put that glove on the lovebug! Tell your friends, your family, your cat; whoever! Just let them know, and make sure you get your cute butt to Planned Parenthood on the 6th.

Wishing you hot, sexy and safer sex,

Essin' Em
em@hotmoviesforher.com

To find a clinic near you:
Planned Parenthood Federation of America - Get FREEEEEE EC

Sex Toys Around the World Challenge!

We have a challenge to all of our friends and members:

Have been inspired by the Mr. Limpy given to our boss by Fleshlight, we are embarking on a challenge. We're going to start a sex toys around the world campaign. We're based here in Philadelphia, and have all sorts of famous landmarks here, and over the next few months, we'll take pictures with Mr. Limpy all over the city - check out our blog and pictures for updates!

Our challenge to you is to send us pictures for your favorite sex toys (vibrators, dildos, anal plugs, nipple clamps, you name it) in locations you might not normally find them...if you're a conductor, let's see your toys on the train. if you're a skater, let's see your dildo doing a double axel. Photos will be posted in various Hot Movies for Her blogs. Most creative photos will get bragging right :)

Come on ladies, I know you've got it in you. Let's show the world how FABULOUS our sex toys really are.

Keep checking here or on myspace as we post our pictures of our new found friend, as well as those send in by readers!

Please send pictures to:
em@hotmoviesforher.com in a .jpeg, .gif or .bmp format
or
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Can't wait to see the pictures!

Essin' Em

Sex Toy Review: Hitachi Magic Wand

Wow. That is all I can say to this. Now, I have had my fair share of vibes, and had no idea why there was such a buzz about the Hitachi Magic Wand…but when I bought my first one last summer, it took all of about 30 seconds for me to understand why it was such a big deal. It is AMAZING. No contest. This vibrator is to all other vibrators what the Rocky Mountains are to an anthill. I honestly don't think I left my bedroom for about 3 days, just experimenting with all of the wonderful things you can do with the magic wand; you can use in on your nipples, your clit, your thighs, your back, anywhere feels great. It even comes with attachments for vibrating penetration. I play rough with my toys, and this one is no different, but it's still whirring just as well as it was the day I bought it. I was originally concerned about the cord, but let me tell you, it's well worth it to figure out where your outlets are just to use this toy, and think of all the money you'll save on batteries! This toy is hands down the best investment I've ever made; give it a try and let the wand work its magic on you!

The Magic of Hitachi

Enjoy! - Essin' Em

Sex tips; female ejacutation!

To Squirt or Not To Squirt; there is the rub!

So of you may have heard about the occurrence of female ejaculation, and may be wondering whether it's a myth, a fact of life, or some combination of the two. I was two, so I decided to do a little research of my own, and report back to y'all about my findings.Yes, female ejaculation exists. No, it's not urine. And if you're like me, and sometimes judge things off of what appears in porn; never fear. Not every film that has female ejaculation is the real deal. In fact, most women that experience ejaculation report about a teaspoon of liquid coming out. Some women have more, some have less, but most don't have 2 cups spurting out from their nether regions.What is it and where does it come from? I know I was always nervous about my partner thinking that I was peeing during sex, so I wanted to know exactly what this strange substance was. Well, you have probably heard about the g-spot, the spongy vaginal area that when aroused provides fabulous sensation (IMHO!) that can be reached by inserting two fingers into the vulva and making a "come-here" motion. Some people refer to it as the female prostate, but studies have shown that this is probably incorrect. In fact, females DO have a separate prostate, near the opening of the bladder. It's on the other side of the vaginal wall from the G-spot (coincidence? I think not! Our bodies are built for pleasure). When the prostate is stimulated along with the G-spot (usually the clitoris plays a pretty big role in this as well, helping the woman get aroused enough to have a G-spot to stimulate), there is occasionally a release of fluid from both the prostate and bladder (that IS NOT urine). No studies have yet found exactly what the purpose of this fluid is, and the exact content of the ejaculate varies from woman to woman, and even from day to day, depending at what point of the cycle the woman is in.Now, you may ask me, how can I ejaculate? Firstly, while all women have prostates, some may be more prone to ejaculation than others. Secondly, although it is incredibly fun to try to "accomplish" a sexual goal, sometimes the process is just as fun as whether or not you succeed. However, it is incredibly fun to give it a try (trust me, I know!). With that in mind, here are some tips:
*If you decide to explore female ejaculation with a partner, make sure it is someone with whom you are comfortable, and that you trust. Sex is complicated enough; doing it while not relaxed is just plain challenging. I know that it takes me some time to let both my body and mind calm down; so figure out what does it for you, and then do it!
*Begin the process of sexual play; kissing, rubbing, pinching, whatever it is that turns you on. If you're not turned on, it's not gonna happen. Talk to your partners, let them know what you want. Sometimes I feel bossy, but if it helps them know what works for me, then mission accomplished.
*To stimulate the G-spot, either have your partner insert their fingers (usually index and middle) into your vagina, pointing upwards (towards your belly button) and make the "come hither motion" or head on over to your friendly, neighborhood Babeland.com and check out some of the G-spot stimulation vibes and dildos. It make take a little trial and error to figure out what is best for your body, but when you find the right one, you'll just know!
*Don't forget that clitoral stimulation is pretty important. The G-spot goes into hiding until a woman is aroused, and that's the best time to stimulate it. As most women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, now would be an ideal time to go search for the little man in the canoe.
*If you don't succeed the first time, don't be disappointed. You can't honestly tell me you didn't have SOME fun trying it out – I know I did (and let me tell you, I've tried it several times…don't give up. It'll come and so will you). It may or may not happen, and you can always try again…enjoy the attempt as well as the end product!

Welcome to the Hot Movies For Her Blog!

Hey all -

I'm Essin' Em, and am the newest addition to the Hot Movies For Her team, and am your new resident Sexpert (and I'm even getting my Master's in Human Sexuality, so how's that for qualified). I'll try and post a sex toy review, and a sex tips blog weekly for all you lovely ladies. If you have any sex questions for me, go ahead and send me a message on myspace, leave a comment on the blog, or email me at em@hotmoviesforher.com . If I don't know the answer, I promise I'll do my best to find it for you! Also, I'll be writing a bunch of movie reviews; I am completely honest with my reviews; I'll only suggest movies that I actually like. If you have any suggestions for movies for me to watch, shoot me a line, and I'll give it a try.I am so excited to be part of the HotMoviesForHer team and can't wait to hear from you.

Essin' Em