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That’s right…I, Essin’ Em, can also be a myth buster, even if I don’t have my own TV show. I’m going to address some common sex myths regarding women, and give you the real deal story instead of the urban legend…if I miss something really important, or you have another myth you want debunked, shoot me an email at em@hotmoviesforher.com.
-Essin’ Em

Myth 1:
All women come from penis-vagina or dildo-vagina intercourse.
Fact:
Very much not the norm. While some women can certainly get off solely from vaginal penetration, certainly not all women fall into this category. In fact, studies have shown that 50%-60% of all women have never had an orgasm from plain old penetration. Yup, more than have of the ladies out there haven’t climaxed from intercourse.

Myth 2:
All women have had orgasms.
Fact:
Again (albeit very sad), not true. 10%-20% of women, believe it or not, have NEVER had an orgasm. Not ever. Not even a tiny one by their own hand/vibrator, etc. So count yourself lucky every time you get off, because not everyone does!

Myth 3:
All teenage girls do/don’t masturbate.
Fact:
Neither is true. About 60%-70% of women never had an orgasm during childhood/teenage masturbation, which means that 30%-40% DID have an orgasms from masturbating in their youth, and probably more of them masturbated, but never reached climax.

Myth 4:
All women can be multi-orgasmic.
Fact:
Not true! Only 14% of women are ACTUALLY multi-orgasmic. Multi-orgasmic means when you go through the stages of orgasm (excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution), you stay at the level of orgasm instead of resolution/recovery, and keep having orgasms. Now, most women can have an orgasm, go through the final stage of resolution (physically returning back to pre-orgasmic stage), and then start all over with excitement, etc. So anyone can have multiple orgasms over a longer time period, but only those 14% are truly multi-orgasmic.

Myth 5:
Multi-orgasmic women can have 30 or 40 orgasms at a time.
Fact:
As exciting as that would be (sign me up!), it’s not true. Truly multi-orgasmic women can usually have about 3 or 4 orgasms in one given orgasmic session (and as written above, women can have several orgasms in a long time period). People that say they’ve “given their partner 35 orgasms” or women who say they came over and over and over again are either stretching the truth a bit, or are feeling a series of rapid rises and declines in the plateau stage; all of them may feel quite lovely, but these surges of pleasure and increased excitement are not actually full-fledged orgasms. So the next time some tells you they had 100 orgasms in an hour, you can explain to them that they were just feeling pulses of excitement in the plateau stage.

Myth 6:
Women can/should only orgasm with their partner.
Fact:
Complete myth! In fact, many women may have issues achieving orgasm with a partner (they might feel nervous, worried about seeming selfish, concerned about body image, and so much more, or they might have a less than sensitive partner), and can only climax from self (fingers or sex toy) stimulation, either on their own, or with a partner. Plus, lots of women who are in sexual relationships continue to masturbate in addition to sharing sexual activity with a partner; sometimes, their partner isn’t available, and sometimes they just want to be pleased by the person that knows them the best; themselves!

Myth 7:
All women scream themselves hoarse when they climax.
Fact:
Not so. Different women climax in different ways; some may breathe heavy, while others hold their breath. Some may scream and yell and invoke the name of their deity of choice, while others may become very silent and speechless. Just because a woman is not screaming out her partner’s name, or grabbing sheets, banging on the walls, etc, certainly does NOT mean she isn’t enjoying her orgasm. Partners: each woman comes differently…find out what yours does, and you’ll have a lot more luck pleasing her than if you expect every woman you’re with to climax in the exact same way.

Going under cover(s),

Essin’ Em