It has occurred to me, and the rest of the office, that some of these are more outfit based, and not so much role-playing. You can do it either way; whatever works for you. And if you have some kind of role playing fantasy that isn’t on here (suggestions from the co-workers; hitchhikers, star trek, naughty nuns, mail carriers, sales clerks, etc). have at it; figure out what turns you and your partner on, because as we all know, that’s really all that matters. Here is the continuation from my last list of the top 10 role playing fantasies.
-Essin’ Em
5. Genie
Magic and mysticism always can be fun, and what is more enticing than getting three wishes? Find some silk, satin or chiffon scarves, and some loose pants or see-through teddies, beautifully colored vibrant make up, burn a little incense, and *poof!*, it’s time to come out of the bottle. Agree on some limits before hand, and once those are in place, go ahead and make your wishes, and watch your dreams come true.
4. Prostitute/Escort
To some people, this is a huge turn off, but for others, the idea of sashaying up to a working girl (or guy) and paying for what you want (and getting in, getting off, and getting out) has some major fantasy appeal, particularly when you’re not in danger of getting any STIs or spending the night in a real jail cell. Again, agree upon some limits before hand so no one gets uncomfortable, and then head out to a street corner, or put in a call to your loved one’s cell phone to arrange for a…happy ending. Outfits for the ladies could include high boots, sexy stockings, matching lingerie, short skirts, etc. For the guys; tight pants, mesh or tight shirts, etc.
3. Strangers
Strangers in the night…exchanging glances. This idea of picking someone up at a bar, and going home with them right then and there is very popular, but in today’s age of diseases, stalkers, etc, it usually isn’t the best of ideas. However, pretending that your partner is a stranger, and picking them up can be lots of fun, and can make it easier to try new things. Decide on a venue first; do you want to go classy with a cocktail lounge, or are you two more of a dive bar type of couple? Dress in one of your favorite outfits that makes you feel confident and sexy, and figure which one of you is going to be doing the picking up and which one will be the one being picked up. With this set up, go out, have a drink, and wait for that sexy stranger to buy to a drink.
2. Secretary/Librarian
It could be the glasses, or the button down shirt, or the hair pulled back tightly in a bun. Or maybe it’s the idea that an office assistant or library lady is so reserved in their daily job and activities that there is a wild woman inside who is just dying to get out. Start with a pencil skirt or well fitting pair of pants, add the button down shirt, sweep your hair up and back, and then finish the look with a pair of “sex-retary” glasses. When the time comes, look over the tops of the frames at your lover with a sultry glance before pulling your hair out of it’s knot and shaking it loose. If they get too loud, don’t forget to shhhhh them before moving on.
1. School Girl
I can’t think of any one fantasy that is more popular than that of the innocent-turned-naughty schoolgirl (or teacher for that matter), and this is one of the easiest role-plays to try out. With a plaid skirt (short or long…doesn’t matter, as it will be coming off), a white button down, and some pigtails, anyone can be transported in to the realm of bubble gum, boyfriend drama and a ruler knocking you on the knuckles. You could play it from the naughty angle, and have the bad schoolgirl in detention, or go for more of a sex-ed or corruption tactic. To complete the outfit, maybe have some white stockings, Mary Janes, and/or a pair of cute glasses.
Enjoy your foray into fantasy
Essin’ Em
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